Wednesday, May 30, 2012

You Never Stop Learning As A Parent

A quote that I read this morning from the blog, Adventures in Babywearing, really spoke to me.  She was talking about her kids and said, 
"And they make me who I am as much as I made them them."

That's just so true!


My children have taught me how to love someone more than myself(at least most of the time!)

They have taught me how to accept change(because they are always changing...and not just their clothes!)

They have taught me how to work with people's strengths and strengthen people's weaknesses because they are all so different and excel(and struggle) in different areas.

They have taught me that multi-tasking is a fine art that can always be improved upon!

They have taught me to really listen in order to understand what they are really saying.(i.e., "i'm fine" can have many different meanings)

They have taught me to listen to my heart to know when something they say they "need" is really only a want....and to know when something they "want"(like playing basketball with Jay or watching a movie together) is really a need.

They have taught me that teenagers need as much, and sometimes more, attention and effort as when they were younger because they are still growing and changing SO much and their  emotional needs are very important.

My children have taught me that I need way more patience than I possess and constantly give me opportunities to fail....I mean grow... in this area!

My children have taught me so many things beyond showing me how talented I am at surviving through years and years of sleep deprivation!

They have taught me way more than I have listed here...but I have to stop blogging and attend to something else my kids have given me lots of practice in over the years....the art of diaper changing!!!

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Our kids really do teach us so much, don't they?
1 reply · active 668 weeks ago
I love how you said your children, "constantly give me opportunities to fail....I mean grow... in this area!" that is exactly the way I feel.
1 reply · active 669 weeks ago
Trying to be supermom is tough! Good thing kids are so forgiving!
awww sweet post.

My son has taught me so much in the past 19 mos. I can't imagine how much I'll learn from him in the years to come! thanks for stopping by my blog and sharing this post! love it!!!
1 reply · active 668 weeks ago
Lol! Love how this post ended. And yes kids really do teach us so much and I believe help us be better people.
1 reply · active 668 weeks ago
I think so, too! Thanks for visiting:)
This has been my experience too. They teach us as much as we teach them, or maybe even more...
1 reply · active 668 weeks ago
Pretty amazing, isn't it! Thanks for visiting:)
A great truth, mine are 19 and 24 and I think the growth will continue for the rest of my life :) (SITS)
1 reply · active 668 weeks ago
I definitely agree with you! Thanks for visiting:)
Love this~ love love love it! It's incredible how much these little people can teach us, isn't it? Sometimes I wonder who is teaching who. :) Stopping by from SITS, happy Saturday!
1 reply · active 668 weeks ago
Absolutely! Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for stopping by:)
My children make me really look inside, deeply...love my little young women! Stopping by from SITS!
1 reply · active 668 weeks ago
I agree...and I don't always like what I see..but it's an opportunity to grow as a person. That's a good thing! Thanks for stopping by!
Great post; I have experienced many of your points! Being a parent is such an amazing growing and learning experience.
1 reply · active 668 weeks ago
It really is! Thanks for visiting:)
I agree, our children teach us so much, and they remind us to appreciate the small things.

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