Friday, November 2, 2012

Opportunities to Trust

All I can say is..."Wow!!!"  Being the featured blogger on the SITS Girls site yesterday was an incredible experience!  I received so many encouraging and positive comments from lots and lots of women!  To see my inbox SO full of comments was an amazing experience!  Thanks to the SITS Girls, all my visitors, and a special thank-you and welcome to my new followers!

It was such great timing, too!  This week has been a tough week.  Parenting a young adult is proving to be extremely emotionally draining.  Finding a balance between what's expected as a member of our family living in the family home with finding the right level of  independence for him to make his own choices  is hard.  What's most discouraging is seeing his struggles with faith.  I hope that someday he will be able to choose his faith for himself, but it is so difficult as a parent to realize that the faith that he has practiced his whole life has not been absorbed into his heart.  I know the seeds are there...and God will do the growing...but it's not easy to let go.  It makes us feel like failures...but I know that he has to choose faith for himself.  I really believe in my heart that he will choose it....as he matures and as God works through the road blocks in his heart.

But, he has sucked all the emotional energy from us the last two weeks.

On top of that, Jay found out that his company is restructuring work hours to save money.  The short story is that basically they are cutting his hours and any opportunity for overtime.  Because of Medicare cuts, the per diem job he works isn't as reliable either.  Jay's such a hard worker and good provider.  This is really stressing him out.

Honestly, I have a peace inside that can only come from God.  Good thing!  The last thing our family needs is both parents stressed out!

I'm trying to be patient.  After all, when God closes a door he always opens a window!  We might have to adjust things a little and rearrange some priorities, but that's ok.

It's definitely an opportunity to trust while Living in the Moment!

Philippians 4:7
And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, shall guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.

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It sounds like you are going through some tough times! I'm so glad being featured on SITS yesterday helped! I missed your day yesterday, so here I am today! You picked a beautiful Bible verse to share with us!
1 reply · active 647 weeks ago
Just a little challenging:)Thanks for coming by today:)
I hopped over from SITS and read some of your posts. I am glad God's timing worked out for your featured day to uplift you during a difficult week. I will leave you my favorite scripture for when the going gets tough: Matthew 6:25-34, especially this verse "Look at the birds in the sky; they do not sow or reap, they gather nothing into barns, yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are not you more important than they?"
I hope you have a great weekend!
1 reply · active 647 weeks ago
Thanks for the words of encouragement!
Hi Michelle! It's so lovely to meet you! I'm now following with GFC.

Your son might benefit from C.S. Lewis' book, Mere Christianity and Nicky Gumble's book, Questions of Life.

I have a Christian mom blog you might find encouraging as I am now dealing with money matters and living by faith at http://happymomshappyhomes.blogspot.com

My "reality" parenting blog is at http://abooksandmore.blogspot.com
1 reply · active 647 weeks ago
Thanks...I will definitely check out the books and the blog links!
Just love him. Love on him, as I'm sure you are doing. Your son will come around, new expectations and boundaries are hard for anyone to adjust to.
1 reply · active 647 weeks ago
I am trying!Not so easy on the days that he's a porcupine:)I think it will work it all out eventually....thanks for the encouragement:)
Letting go is the hardest thing to do, but it must be done. Trust yourself! You all can do it.
1 reply · active 647 weeks ago
Thanks for the encouragement:)
May you find moments of peace and joy amidst the turbulent waters these days.

I think you might find a little support in my post today. I invite you to visit. And I send my thoughts and prayers your way. I believe in you! A faithful mother offering her love to her child is worthy of all the support of heaven. May you feel that today.

Happy Sharefest. I hope you have a peaceful weekend.
Hi Michelle:
Your post was right on time for me. With God, He will provide peace. Blessings to you and your family.
1 reply · active 647 weeks ago
Thank you.I hope you find the peace that you are seeking!

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