Thursday, January 17, 2013

What's My Focus?

Here is proof that I am not a first time mom....

Most first time moms would grab their wobbly 1 year old as soon as they noticed she had climbed onto the dishwasher.  Me...I went to get the camera.:)

A challenge was posed by Kristi at Must Love God today about sharing what we need to work on this year in order to help hold us accountable.  Apparently, there's also a buzz about choosing one word to concentrate on and make it your focus of the year.

Just not feeling that.....

But, I do have plenty to work on this year!  There is the clutter around me on the outside and the clutter around my insides, too.

Based on the way the year has begun, I think my focus will at least begin on my need to acknowledge that I have needs to and it's ok to have them.  I will work on adding my needs to the family calendar along with everyone else's.  I will also work on listening to God's prompting in my heart to ask for...and accept help... when I need it.

I also want to work on being more social after a year of being mostly homebound or at least tied to a nursing baby.  Nursing is so worth the sacrifice, but I am also looking forward to a little "unattached" time now that Kate is a little bigger and able to stay with Daddy and her Grandmas.  (Plus, it gives them special time with her, too!)

I want to focus on my health a little, too, and try to lose this extra baby weight that has been hanging on for the last couple(or 20) years.  I just want to feel good about myself while I'm still in my 30's.  (17 months and counting...shiver, shiver!)

Gee....sounds a little 'me, me, me', huh?

Well, I guess I will also work (really hard) to ask God to guide my day..to give to others in the everyday moments...to stretch beyond my comfort point when He inspires me to....to love with all I have.....and to ask for, seek, and accept, the moments He will give me to recharge so that I will have even more to give!



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It sounds as if you do have a word...lol! Focus. In your quest for you time... schedule your time with the Lord on that calendar. Put Him first, seek first His righteousness.... and He will guide your path in 2013!
1 reply · active 636 weeks ago
lol...I guess you are right! Thanks for the insight:)....and the encouragement!
Michelle

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Funny about that comment! I was going to say looks like you have a word too! The word that comes to mind reading your post, for me, was 'Permission'. My word for the year too, but so much of what you said is what I'm working on too. Permission to have needs and wants, permission to take time to work on my health, permission to clear out the clutter... Permission to be who GOD intended me to be... fully.
Thanks for sharing your heart and linking up over at Must Love God! We're so glad to have you stop by!
1 reply · active 636 weeks ago
lol..I guess I have 2 words:) The way you described permission makes so much sense...it really isn't easy to let myself acknowledge that I have needs and wants!
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Love that photo! haha and you're probably right! If it were me and if I were a mom, I bet I'd be in full panic mode!
1 reply · active 636 weeks ago
lol..thanks:)

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I was thinking the same thing as was said above. It seems you've chosen focus as your word. I think it's a beautiful word, and whether you choose to use it or not I hope your year brings you joy.

I chose see. I want to see all the things I miss when I rush. I want to slow down and be in the moment more. I want to see through God's eyes. I've already had some great experiences that I've already written about. Which reminds me, I've got another one to write about. Guess I'll be blogging tomorrow.

Thanks for sharing. Happy Sharefest. I hope you have a lovely week.
1 reply · active 636 weeks ago
'see' is a great word! What a beautiful focus for you to have for the year!
Hope you had a great weekend:)
Michelle

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