Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Selfie Photo Shoot


Jay got me an iphone for Christmas.  Most of my kids know how to work it better than I do.  Kate enjoyed her own little photo session the other day.  I'm not sharing all 114 pictures she took in less than a minute(!), but here are a few of Kate's first attempt at 'selfie's'......













What a goober...but a cute goober:)

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Celebrating Babies!

Fevers are gone...hooray!  Of course, Kate was up a lot last night because she now has the cold that Luke had.  Sigh.....two steps forward and one step back!  But I'm glad the fevers are gone and no one is puking!

At least for now.....

Is is spring yet?  We have had two days of unusually warm weather.  I'm not pulling out the swim suits or anything, but 50 degrees in the middle of January is pretty darn good.  I'm not even looking at the weather channel to find out if we are turning arctic again tomorrow...I'm just enjoying the temperature today!

I have several friends that are having babies soon.  My friend, Pam, who I had the gender reveal party for back in September, is due in two weeks but possibly any time the way she's been feeling the last 24 hours!

On Saturday, I'm holding a little baby shower for another friend, Shelby, whose baby is due February 9th.  It's her 5th baby...so it's not the giant baby shower for a first time mom!  It will be much smaller scale, but it's still nice to pamper a mom-to-be and help get ready for a new little one in the house.

When I was pregnant with both Luke and Kate, my closest friends threw me a little baby shower each time!  It was really helpful to have outfits and diapers ready to go.  Since it was 6 years between Ellie and Luke, we had given everything away thinking we wouldn't be having more children.

Obviously God had other ideas:)

Even though Luke and Kate are only two years apart, being different genders and born in different seasons(Luke was summer, Kate was winter), I didn't have many clothes that would work.  So, the surprise shower that my friends threw for me before Kate was born was super helpful!

Plus, what women don't want an excuse to hang out with her close friends and eat desserts?  (Oohing and aawing over cute baby clothes just makes it even better!)

My friend knows she is having a girl...so it's a lot of fun throwing a 'pretty in pink' party!  It's been fun making lists and figuring out the menu.  (Planning the party has also been a good distraction.  It's good having something positive to focus on!)

Tomorrow, Mike has graciously agreed to drag himself out of bed at an un-Godly hour to come with me and Kate to get supplies.  (He's 20 and on college break....so 8am is un-Godly to him!)

Since pregnancies usually happen in three's...as the old saying goes...I am off the hook because my friend, Colleen, is having a baby towards the end of March.

Whew!;)

Monday, January 13, 2014

Not a Stellar Weekend

I feel like I am arriving at Monday battered and bruised.

It was not a stellar weekend...and that is an understatement!

We found out late Friday afternoon that our pastor is being transferred in June.  That is a big blow for our parish and for our family.  Msgr. O'Connor arrived at our parish almost six years ago and has been a faithful and strong leader for our parish and school.  He has become like part of our own family, so having him transferred has left all of us grieving and hurting.

Luke has had a terrible sinus cold and cough since Wednesday.  He has spent most nights coughing and waking himself...and me...up multiple times.  He was running a fever overnight on Friday, so I ended up taking him to the doctor's Saturday morning to check his lungs.  (Mike is getting over pneumonia, so I wanted to make sure Luke was ok.)  Thankfully, his lungs were clear.

Kate, who has been SUPER clingy lately, started running a fever on Saturday afternoon.  She and Luke were both miserable all through Saturday night and all day Sunday.  I spent most of both days on the couch just holding Kate because that's the only thing she wanted to do.

It was a very.long.weekend.

Today is a new day.  Thankfully, the sun is out and Kate's fever broke.  Luke is coughing less and seems filled with extra energy today(!) so I think he should be all set for school tomorrow!

Emotionally, I'm still reeling a lot a bit.  There were lots of tears and somber faces at Mass yesterday.  Lots of people are hurting over the upcoming change and loss we are facing.  I feel overwhelmed by it because of all the changes in our own lives that we are already facing this year!  I already felt back-logged by all my feelings for the coming year....and now I feel really overwhelmed!

Sigh....

Life and changes are going to happen whether I want them to or not!  I've had past experience with just sticking my head 'in the sand' and hoping things go away and I know it doesn't work!  You just end up getting battered by the waves of life that roll in anyway!

So, I am working through my feelings...even the messy ones.  I am praying to find God's peace for myself, my family and all my friends and fellow parishioners that are hurting right now.

Philippians 4:7
And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, will keep your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Friday, January 10, 2014

Friday Already!?!

Wow did this week go by fast!  Unfortunately, this is Jay's weekend to work:(  I'm praying he doesn't have many patients to see!

To wrap up the week......

1.  Earthquake
Apparently there was a small earthquake(1.9) that happened yesterday while I was enjoying book club with my friends.  We didn't even feel it!  I think that's because we are so used to crazy kids jumping around the house, and teenagers who don't know how to close the front door without shaking the house, that it takes way more than that for us to take notice!

2.  Winter
Seriously, I am such a baby about this weather.  I don't like the cold.  It makes me want to hibernate!  I go out as little as possible!  I'm daydreaming about Florida and wishing for a long vacation to soak up some sun!  I probably mentioned this before, but one of my best.vacations.ever was a Disney trip we took during February vacation several years ago.  I remember eating dinner by the pool in our bathing suits at 6:30 pm.... in the middle of February!  It was warm...it was still light out....it was the best!    

3.  Hats
Winter is definitely not my favorite, but Kate does look super cute in her hat:)

4. Fashionista
Kate like clothes...and shoes.  Especially shoes!  In the morning, we have to give her 2 shirts to choose from otherwise there is an 85% chance of a tantrum.  Same on the shoes.  The other day she found random accessories and "dolled herself up".  Stylin'!


5.  More on Shoes
Like I just mentioned, Kate loves shoes and boots.  Jay still has a picture of Kate holding the first pair of shoes we bought her so lovingly!

That love has continued to grow!  After Christmas, Sarah and I had a girls afternoon of returning/shopping and I found a super cute pair of boots for Kate.(on sale:)  When we got home, I told Kate I had something for her.  She walked over and looked in the box.  Her eyes lit up, her voice got extra squeaky and she started clapping her hands saying, "Yay, boots!!!"

The older boys that were in the room looked over at Jay and said, "Yah, Dad, you're screwed!" 

6.  Resolutions
I still haven't spent a whole lot of time reflecting on New Year's resolutions.  This is a big year with more big changes coming....college decisions, family dynamics changing depending on who goes away to school and who stays local, the big '4-0' looming sooner that I want, Jay's big '4-0', a high school graduation, a son turning 18 and a son turning 21.  Yikes...no wonder I want to avoid pondering the year!:)

7. Word of the Year
Last year around this time, it was all the buzz to choose a word that would be a focus for the year.  I wasn't going to do it, then I started thinking about it, and felt God put the word enough on my heart.  It has been a word that has come up all throughout the year!  In some ways, I'm still working on 'being enough' and 'loving enough' and feelings of 'having enough'.  

2014 is a new year! (Although I keep writing 2013 on my checks!)  I got a new word when I wasn't even expecting it.  My friend, Mary, gave me a super cute angel ornament that held a word in her hands....
WISH
To explain all that the word is already making me think about would be a whole other blog post....so I will save it for another day!  The word is already helping me to look at the new year with a positive perspective!

Have a great weekend!

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Meal Planning

I still can't get back into a post holiday rhythm!  Trying....and failing...but I'm going to keep working at it!

Today, I decided to talk about meal planning.  Over the last several months, multiple people have happened to bring up the subject of struggling most days to figure out 'what's for dinner'.

The whole concept of unplanned meals is pretty foreign...and really scary....to me!  With 9 other people to feed in this house, including a somewhat picky eater and a VERY picky eater, having planned meals is a really important part of my job as mom/home organizer.  I would be so stressed out if I arrived at 4pm each day trying to figure out what to make for dinner with a whiny toddler and preschooler and the knowledge that a hungry husband and several hungry 'man sized' teens/young adult would be walking through the door soon "starving!" and ready to start eating someone's arm if dinner isn't ready!

While there are lots of areas where putting 'organizer' next to my name as a job description would have my husband and children raising a cynical eyebrow at me, meal planning would not be one of them.  Not counting the occasional hiccup, I plan and shop for a week's worth of meals every Friday.  (Or Saturday morning if I absolutely can't get it done on Friday...but generally I try to avoid Saturday shopping.  It is just way too busy!)

Here's the way I organize our family's meal planning....

To save money, I plan my meals around the sales circular of the local grocery store I shop at.  I do the bulk of my shopping at one store.  (For some of Peter's specialty food, I have to go to a second store where I will also pick up whatever "super sale" items are on sale that week that we use.)

Every Thursday, I pull out the circular.  I figure out what meat is on sale and then I start brainstorming what I want to cook that week.  I grab a piece of white lined paper(or back of a 8x11 sheet of computer paper or an unimportant used school paper...recycling is good:)  and write Saturday through Thursday on the upper right hand side.  Like so.....


Where's Friday, you might be asking?  Well, on Friday my parents invite us for a take out dinner of either pizza or Chinese food...so I get the night off from cooking:)  It makes the end of the week even sweeter for me!

Quick side note.....I also cross reference our calendar for the following week so I know if there are any games for the kids or meetings we need to attend where I need to make something easy for a quick clean up, or a crock pot meal if I will be out at night....or schedule a leftover(or whatever) night if Jay will be out.  Knowing what I'm looking at for the week helps make planning easier!

To give you a real time example, and kill 2 birds with 1 stone, I will create my list for the week while sharing my step by step method for menu planning.  (I always, always shop with a list!)

So, this week at Stop and Shop, there are boneless chicken breasts and a beef roast on sale that catch my eye.  Thinking through the meals (most) of my family enjoys, I'm filling in Sunday's dinner as a roast, Monday's as lemon chicken, and Thursday as 'awesome chicken'.  (Awesome chicken is baked chicken in a homemade ketchup based sauce...and it's great served over mashed potatoes!  yum:)

I had a request for cheeseburgers....that will be Saturday's meal.  It's supposed to be 54 degrees on Saturday...heatwave!....so grilling is a good option!  Plus, it's game day....Patriot's are in the playoffs Saturday night, so burgers with homemade french fries are a good choice!

I always do one pasta dish a week because it's something my pickiest eater will definitely eat!  (And he has the leftovers on some of the other days...so I know he won't starve!)  Usually Wednesdays will be spaghetti and meatballs...and some weeks I make lasagna.  But this week, spag and meatballs it is!)

That leaves Tuesday.  I have frozen scallops I need to use in the freezer and I will make homemade Black Dog chowder to go with it.

That's it!  One week of meals.  Now I think about what ingredients i need to make each meal and the sides and add them to the list.  Then I add any paper products we are out of and any really good sale items that I want to pick up.  I also add in our 'regular' snack items and any food staples we are out of.

Quick side note.....I set up my list mostly based on the aisles of the store.  It helps me to move through the store quickly without having to back track for items....a real necessity when you have the ticking time bomb of a toddler who will only sit still for so long!(and that takes into account the piece of cheese she gets at the deli and the fruit snacks I open for her a couple aisles later!)

And here is the final product that includes the short list for the second grocery store.(bottom right)


My friend, Laura, inspired this post with her New Year's resolution to "plan meals better".(Thanks, Laura:)
Happy shopping!

Monday, January 6, 2014

Back to Routine

Anyone else have a hard time getting going this morning?

After more than 2 weeks off with just one "regular" day last Thursday before the snow storm rolled in, it is not easy to get back into the school routine!

It was a little ugly around here....and I'm thinking that Jay didn't get Ellie and Luke to school in time for the bell!

We will have to do better tomorrow!  Back to 'early to bed, early to rise'!

Poor Kate cried when Luke walked out the door to school.  She followed him to the door and stood there crying pitifully, "Lukie....Lukie...want play Lukie".  :(  Poor baby....her big brother is her buddy.  Luckily, he only goes to preschool for half a day so they will have plenty of play time this afternoon!

What a crazy month it has been!  It's going to take me a while to find some kind of normal and sort through all my back-logged emotions.

Doesn't that sound like fun?!? :\

Today's goal is to fold laundry, take down the Christmas tree, clean the kitchen, and try to spend some time thinking about some goals for this year.  That's a hefty list for me!

A special birthday shout out to my nephew, Brayden, who turns four today!  Luke and Brayden are best buddies!  It's great having a cousin who is the same age and lives close by!

Best buds and partners in crime!  Happy Birthday, Brayden! 

Friday, January 3, 2014

Happy Friday!

Linking up with Jen for 7 Quick Takes Friday!  I have lots of pictures to share:)

1.  What a Difference a Year Makes!
Christmas 2012
Christmas 2013



2.  An Even Bigger Difference!

Christmas 2012

Christmas 2013
3.  And Once Again....

Christmas 2012



Christmas 2013


4.  Funny Pic

Christmas Eve Silliness!
I wanted to take a pic of Jay with his older boys and this is what happened!
(Jay is feeding Jon cheesecake in case you were wondering!)

5.  More Sibling Silliness!
These pics need a little background.  Our kids exchange names with each other for secret Santa.  Andrew got Jon, and as part of his gift, Andrew framed some 'original artwork' that he found stuffed in one of his Pearls Before Swine books.  The paper is a drawing that Jon, Sarah, and Mike created on the plane ride on our way to Disney in April.  Of all the silly things they drew on the paper, one particular stood out and has become a household "legend"....the flying butt, created by Jon.(shocking isn't it....not!)
Jon was completely surprised...and overjoyed....with his gift!
Being the tease he is, Jon's gift to Sarah a few minutes later caused a few more laughs.  Jon wrapped up his man flops and, with all seriousness, told Sarah he was giving them to her.  A moment later, he started laughing at the look of confusion on Sarah's face and Sarah realized it was just a joke...and threw the sandal at him!  It's never dull at our house!  (His real gift to her was a special edition Sherlock Holmes book:)
Mike got Andrew a bacon bobble head...because he is crazy about bacon!

6.  New Year's Eve
So New Year's Eve was supposed to be pretty big in our house.  Jon had invited about 10 teens over and we had a few friends and their kids plus my sister and one of her friends coming over....about 38 people including us.  At 4pm, Jon started feeling sick.  At 5, we were all regretting that he had eaten bbq chicken pizza for lunch:(  So, we had to cancel everyone last minute:(

I tried to salvage the night and Sarah and I tagged team to still make some special food....coconut chicken, buffalo chicken taquitos, and piggies in a blanket.  We played Pandemic and Loaded Questions, but everyone fizzled out at 11.  Andrew went to bed, Sarah and Jay fell asleep on the couch, and Mike, Ellie and I were passing time to get to midnight.  Luke started fussing at 11:45, and I fell asleep getting him settled.   Only Mike and Ellie watched the ball drop!  A bit of a bummer to begin 2014:(

Kate looked really cute making piggies, though:)

7.  January 1, 2014
My mom has an open house every year on New Year's Day.  Jon stayed home and Andrew had to work, but the rest of us headed over.  I got some cute shots...




Kate with my grandfather, 'Pepere'



Luke and my nephew, Brayden

Luke being silly
I love(!) this pic of Luke!

Kate and my niece, Mya

Pretty girls!
And, last but not least......Daddy with his baby girl!



Happy Friday!